Such A Swiss Really Did Exist

A friend once told me that he did not like Swiss people. I asked him why not? He said the Swiss were patronizing, and prone to telling others how they should do things. Schoeni was a Swiss too, but all my friends were extremely fond of him. Although he also had a habit of telling close friends what and how to do things, he was able to convey the message in a friendly and interesting manner. In fact, my friends and I liked him a lot and appreciated his advice. This seems to indicate a cultural gap between the East and West, and there is a great need for us to understand European cultural habits and established customs. Schoeni enlightened us on the ways and attitudes of handling things based on his experience and wisdom, which he had accumulated over the years. His friends and team members benefited greatly from his valuable instruction.

"Excellent! Fantastic! Perfect!" - these were words that could often be heard in conversations with Schoeni. He said them with such a delightful and encouraging tone when he was talking to others, which explains why he was well loved. His vigour and humour touched every person who came into contact with him. A lot of people were so attached to him that, for them, it was rather like craving for a nice cup of coffee. What a charmer he was!

We often had fun together. I introduced him to my favourite music, and he taught me the art of enjoying red wine and cigars, how to swivel the wine glass so as to bring out the aroma of the wine, and how to make a tasty beefsteak. As we scoured the shops of Paris, he advised me on what kind of attire suited me best. Not only did he set an example for me on how one should live one's live, he was also a great companion, with whom I shared many happy times.

Although my English was poor, and his Chinese no better, there was no perceivable barrier to our interactions. We often did not have any translators at hand, but he understood me perfectly even though my command of the language was often lacking. He possessed the sensitivity and insight of an artist, which contributed to his success in the art trade.

"All the best!" were the final words he said to me, as we parted. His tone together with the image of him punching his fist when he said those words constantly play over in my mind, while I paint, interact with friends, enjoy life...

If we were to hear more words like "excellent" and "all the best", the world would be a "perfect" place!

I am proud to have known such a Swiss man. I am glad to have had such a special friend, regretting only that the time we spent together had been so fleeting!

He made such a dramatic impact on the way I live and on the quality of my life. Indeed he has changed my life altogether!

Li Gui Jun
July, 2004